My first city all by myself? Of course I was terrified but I was more than ready.
There were so many last minute changes to this trip in specific but I rode the wave and it took me on the most spontaneous of journeys.
I’m not gonna lie – I had no idea what I was doing. I was literally planning out my week during my first night in my first airbnb. This spot was a good 30 minutes away from the actual city so I had decided I would go about planning for the two nights I was staying in the burbs so that I can execute the rest of my week in the city.
Which is exactly what I did.
- Open mic night
- Walked to the mall (10 mins away) and the GoodWill
- Walked to get tacos and horchata
- Walked to downtown Las Vegas
- Went to an open mic
- Walked The Fremont Street Experience
- A mess of an adventure of a night – driving around Vegas and ended in a strip club
- Walked around the area again
- Went to another open mic
- Checked another thrift store
- Went to a pool party/club (Surrender @ Wynn)
- Went to The Richard Steele Boxing Club
- Used Vegas transit for the first time and bought a 24-hour pass
- Went to Fashion Show Mall
- Hung out with some new friends
- Used Vegas transit again – commuted around the city
- Tacos El Gordo
- Went to Fremont Street during the evening to kill time
- Went to another club (Intrigue)
- Authentic Thai food
- Hotel party @ Planet Hollywood
- Strolling the Vegas Strip
I met so many wonderful artists and creatives during the Monday night open mic and my soul was already content. Not even that but just the feedback from the audience and feeling support was just… amazing. I really had no words. But this open mic opened the door for many friendships which carried on throughout my week in Vegas.
By my third day in Vegas, I already felt like I had found my purpose. I felt FULL. I felt personally fulfilled. It wasn’t until I had a conversation after going to the Richard Steele Boxing Gym where I felt this. Well, my events leading up to this day definitely contributed to this feeling for sure. And just meeting people in general and feeling their energy made that difference.
I was thanking the person that brought me to the gym. I thanked Richard Steele himself. I was honestly so grateful. All because I was able to step foot in that gym, watch my new friend box for a bit then I was able to learn a few combos from one of their trainers there. What got me is that their trainer (who was also in the military) saw “it” in me. I told him I started studying Muay Thai and after having shown me a few new moves, he was telling one of his fighters and the other boxing trainer that it’s in my blood. That’s when I felt like I was on the right path – like I was supposed to be doing this.
In my conversation with my new friend, he told me that I have this certain energy about me – it’s genuine. I can pick apart the bullshit and negativity – I can sense that in someone. I nearly cried in his car lol. We just met a couple days prior to this, and if he can sense this about me already? This just shows my personal growth and the type of energy I have been exuding.
And he wasn’t the first person to tell me this either. The many folks I have met throughout my time in Vegas have said the same thing about my energy.
It’s not like I didn’t know this already – people from Toronto have told me this as well.
So why does it matter what they think and feel from me?
This whole entire trip was supposed to be this journey of re-discovery. It was supposed to be the journey of me finding myself again.
However, I don’t think I was ever lost… I let cloudy thoughts take over, storming away what I already knew about myself. I just needed that extra boost of sunshine to clear the path I’m walking on. I needed that extra sunshine to guide me back home. Back to me. Back to who the fuck I proudly am.
My energy is the same, but stronger, after having spent some time alone. I’ve tested my waters by putting myself into new experiences and situations. I’ve tested my waters by trusting individuals that I have just met. I’ve tested my waters by trusting myself and my capabilities.
My self-awareness levels have definitely heightened while in Vegas. Though I surrounded myself with people, I had to fully trust in my senses and solitude. I had to be 10x aware of not only myself but of those around me especially because anything could happen. But let me give myself some credit because I have become more cautious with my energy and more aware of what I should and should not give my time to… Meaning, I can no longer force myself into situations where I do not feel fit.
With all that being said, back to that question.
People that don’t know me, people that are from a completely different city (hell, even a different country) telling me this solidifies what I already know and who I am trying to become. This is just confirming that I am on the right path of who I want to be and who I am already becoming.